Match Made in Heaven....

This is a very random post, seriously. I was chatting with Sendrew yesterday and this particular question struck my mind, "Define Match Made in Heaven" He said, us and I laughed. It's actually something sweet but I asked him to tell more and he asked me. I said I don't know and he said don't know as well.

I couldn't resist of asking it to my friends and so I did. They gave very interesting answer.LOL. So this is just my point of view.

I think match made heaven are two people that share love from the second they become one till death despite all the ups and downs they meet in the middle. So, one can only know whether they are really meant to be together or not at the end and this will probably be discovered by their friends, relatives or kids.
Being in Love is an awesome thing but at times people tend to use it in an inappropriate way. Hence, comes the break ups, problems, and there goes the saying, ''SINGLE ROCKS!''. Lol. I tend to laugh when I look at these things now. I was once a person that used to say that line but things change. Perhaps I'm in a relationship right now and I can find the difference before and now. Match made in heaven are truly based on destiny. Nobody knows their right person. Things can even change once one is married. So, nothing is permanent in life. I believe it's their own will of creating their relationship as made in heaven. Overcoming all the small misunderstandings, the big fights, the uncomfortable part between each other and more.
So instead of hoping for a match made in heaven, create one..:)

My Love's Birthday...:)

No worries. It's my nephew's birthday today! He is my LOVE!hehe. I know him since born and now he is 10 years old! Oh my GOD! I still remember him as a small baby 10 years ago. That's right. He born when I was 10 and now he is 10! Look how time flies. I have no idea why, he won't irritate me. He reminds me of myself a lot. Like how I used to be when I was young. Besides he does whatever I do, like being a prefect, choosing PBSM, in the food and drink I like. He tend to compete with me but yet he can't. hahaha.. He always ask the others ''Why Shirley born before me?''LOL! He will always be my dear in my heart no matter what. He doesn't call me aunty and I don't like that and he knows it well. So, shirley or to be precise "tikus" makes me smile all the time..(even though it can be annoying at times)

Today he is officially 10 years old. A very big boy! LOL.
I went to my sister's place early in the morning today. The plan was, I suppose to fetch him(by walking) from his school, bring him back home, take lunch, go Times Square, watch The Hunger Games, go Papa John's for dinner then hit home. 
BUT, there were slight change.:P I did went to his school by walking and after a while the father came by motorbike..arrghh....He purposely made me to walk. According to him, I'm being too lazy and he wants me to exercise.:S Then we went on TRIPLES on the bike back home.hehehe..Lunch was super duper HEAVY! 

Then we went to Times Square to watch movie with my elder sister and him. Cindy couldn't join cause she had to be in a meeting.LOL. A loyal worker.:P Before the movie, we did a little shopping for three of us. All three of us got t-shirt from PUMA. Wohoa!
Movie time!!! I actually regreted of choosing that movie. I wanted to watch THE VOW but it wasnt appropriate for Nickson. I would rate The Hunger Games a B-. I still don't get the point of the game. Its nonsense.LOL. Why must they film such movie? But trust me, It was thousand times better than Winter's Bone.LOL!

After the movie, Cindy came back and instead of taking dinner at Papa John's we decided to just take away Chessesticks(since its his and my favourite.:P) We took the cake and hit home. The moment we got home, we started to "swallow" the cheese sticks.lol. Just in a while it went missing.:P
We were waiting for his father to cut cake. 

Nice right..:P He wanted MU cake this year and that's Cindy's responsibility to get it.LOL!
Once the father came, we cut the cake, sang the birthday song and snapped pictures.LOL. Me, Nickson and Cindy started to webcam!:p
Around eight something, we went to Brickfields for dinner. That's all for his tenth birthday and he has more to come. In future, I'll prepare a real surprise for him.lol..:p

Bye people!!!! :)

SAYING SORRY.....

 

                                                                                                          

How many times in a day you said sorry to someone or few people? What is sorry actually? 

I think it's a very powerful word and not everyone can say it with open heart..:P

I know I'm being a philosopher right now...:P The reason why I'm blogging about this is cause I'm the type that says sorry a lot. Even for small things BUT it depends. Only if the mistake is mine, If it's not, YOU CAN NEVER EVER HEAR THAT WORD FROM MY MOUTH. That's when me being stubborn part comes in.LOL.

Saying sorry is not a big thing actually. Its shows how one can really feel their mistake and apologise to the other party. Yet to some, if you don't say sorry it's a huge thing for them. Common lar people, not everyone can be like you right..

I like so say sowie instead of sorry. LOL. It sounds more cute and "manjaish" and OBVIOUSLY I'll use that word to Sendrew. We tend to insult each other and get into misunderstanding a lot. But when one of us started to say sowie, things change. We eventually feel bad and start apologizing. Hence things will turn to normal. I suppose that's what makes one's relationship strong. By saying a simple sorry, THINGS CHANGE. It will also make the other person feel "the thing"(okay, I don't know the word and I'm thinking) what I'm trying to say is, the other person will feel its actually not their fault but they will feel one kind, so they will start saying sorry as well..

 It works among friends as well. Try to sit around, perhaps during tea time, and talk to them. On what you feel about them, let is be positive and negative. At the end say sorry ( I should do this with my friends) It helps. We will actually know what our friends really think about us. We will change the negative part and the positive part keep it on.:D

Besides it will make your bond among your friends stronger!

I did it with my secondary friends once. We talked on things we like among each other and things that we felt uncomfortable with one another.:)

That's how I feel about this word. Its a very special word and will change things. Don't ever mind saying it if the mistake is yours. Its alright actually. You're doing the right thing. So my dear people, never ever hesitate to say sorry. At times, even the mistake is not yours nevermind lar. They will realise its their mistake and they will start saying sorry. { I'm going to start doing that even though the mistake is not mine, it shows I'm being mature} XD. hahaha..:P

Its my nephew's birthday.:) My LOVE! I love him so much. I don't know why. LOL.. Will blog about him tomorrow... :P Happy Advance Birthday to him!!! Hopefully I can make his day tomorrow... hahahaha....LOL...

End of Second Semester....

I was actually suppose to post this as END OF DISASTROUS SEMESTER but I'm afraid it will repeat again. You know the saying, NEVER SAY NEVER!

Well I told my friends that I will blog today no matter what so that's what I'm doing right now.

My entire second semester was full of headache, hypertension, on and off fever and STRESS. There were even says I cried and all I did was talked to GOD. Remember what I said in my New Year's Post, talk to people and it'll make you feel better. I spoke to mt friends and my sister but I didn't get the any peace. Once I cried out to GOD and told him everything I actually felt much better. Hence, I became more spiritual.

That's the major lesson I learnt from Second Semester. BE CLOSER TO GOD. It helps in many ways. Here are some quotes that really helped during the days when I was very upset and down....

 Other than that, I also learned that it's a good thing to do early preparation for exam. My microbiology lecturer is a very strict lecturer. The only thing expects from us is FURTHER READING AND ONE MUST ALWAYS BE PREPARED BEFORE ENTERING HER CLASS. Hence, that's what I did ALWAYS before her class. It actually made me to feel relaxed during the exam. It was really easy to study and I wasn't really stressed with that particular exam. So, I'll take note of that and try to prepare everytime before a class. 

Basically thats the only two lesson I learnt. Many things happen this semester and most of it turned my days down. Days after Mid-Sem wasn't a good one. I was more stressed, worried, sad, depressed. I was counting down for the days to be over as fast as possible and ITS OVER. My FIRST SHORT SEMESTER will begin in a week and I'm going to prepare myself mentally well. 
To prepare myself physically is kinda difficult, I've put on a lot of weight. So, I'm going to EXERCISE during short semester as I only have 3 subjects. 

I'll be spending more time with these people until I finish my degree....:P

So, that's all for tonight.. Most probably I'll be bloging tomorrow as well. I'm going out!!! Wohoa!!!:)

A sudden urge....

I actually didn't plan to blog today but suddenly I feel like doing so. Since, I don't have any paper tomorrow or the day other after tomorrow, I decided to blog.:)

I had my first exam today. English. I didn't really study for the paper cause it was English but I shouldn't underestimate it. The paper was alright but I feel I should start reading more to get some ideas for essay part..LOL.. I have four English paper more until I graduate.


After our exam, we went to Secret Recipe to have our lunch and I was amazed they have Vegetarian Spaghetti and it was cheap!!! I'm so going again to try Vegetarian Lasagne. LOL

Then I came back home, relaxed, spam Jessica's wall and studied a bit. 
 I'm having a mixed feeling at the moment. Very confused one. Maybe cause of exam mode or something else I don't know. At times, I feel like people use me. Once they got what they want, they just leave me like a pile of garbage. No worries, nothing happen but this is what happened to me during my schooling days. After few incidents, I had the fear of being close to someone. Fear that people will leave me halfway, break their promises and things like that.

At times, it's not good to trust or to depend on someone too much. You may end up is heart ache or disappointments. Humans tend to repeat their mistakes often. Even me. I did repeat my same mistakes again and if I can go back to time I really wish not to do it again. hmm.. sadly badly no one has such machine. If not everyone will be using it and will never move on or over come it, right??

Second semester is coming to end soon and I've learned a lot of lessons.. Since I've already posted during new year, so my next post will be about what I've learnt for the past 3 months. It will be simple but ITS A BIG THING for me. 
Time to sleep...:)